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	<title>Comments on: In Praise of the Wild: Discussion of Jeannette Walls&#8217; &#8220;The Glass Castle&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: Leann Zarah</title>
		<link>http://layla.miltsov.org/discussion-of-the-glass-castle-by-jeannette-walls/#comment-8992</link>
		<dc:creator>Leann Zarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:47:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Layla,

I haven&#039;t read Ms. Walls&#039; book yet, and your review has made it more compelling for me to grab a copy and peek into the life history of the Walls family. 

It&#039;s truly unfortunate that there are people who blame others for their economic/financial woes sans any regard for the broader context. It&#039;s easy for these people to say so because they are in a different situation. Not everyone who is rich and privileged got their lot through legitimate or legal means though. And, in my humble opinion, JFK&#039;s famous line telling people to ask themselves what they can do for their country is akin to saying &quot;help feed your elected leaders because they are unable to feed themselves&quot;. In another light, it could also mean &quot;your government is inept at helping you secure a better life&quot;. 

If state governments are unable to make life better for the majority but are capable of protecting the status quo and serving the interests of the elite few, then these institutions are merely puppets and business agents of the rich minority who make life much difficult for the majority.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Layla,</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read Ms. Walls&#8217; book yet, and your review has made it more compelling for me to grab a copy and peek into the life history of the Walls family. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s truly unfortunate that there are people who blame others for their economic/financial woes sans any regard for the broader context. It&#8217;s easy for these people to say so because they are in a different situation. Not everyone who is rich and privileged got their lot through legitimate or legal means though. And, in my humble opinion, JFK&#8217;s famous line telling people to ask themselves what they can do for their country is akin to saying &#8220;help feed your elected leaders because they are unable to feed themselves&#8221;. In another light, it could also mean &#8220;your government is inept at helping you secure a better life&#8221;. </p>
<p>If state governments are unable to make life better for the majority but are capable of protecting the status quo and serving the interests of the elite few, then these institutions are merely puppets and business agents of the rich minority who make life much difficult for the majority.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2011 13:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Joni- Jeanette&#039;s mom did not simply sell some of her fortunes because she believed her belongings should be her own. She kept all the heirlooms because they belong to the family and have been in the family; she&#039;s not going to be the one to blame for ending the line.
     She doesn&#039;t sell the ring because Mr. Walls sold their rings. She wanted to feel like a normal person in some way; a normal married mother wears her wedding ring. Does it make more sense to sell something they never use? Yes it does, but Mrs. Walls is different than most people. She is fine with wearing that ring, even though she is homeless. She is fine with spending money on art supplies when they don&#039;t have enough money for food. She is not the average mother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Joni- Jeanette&#8217;s mom did not simply sell some of her fortunes because she believed her belongings should be her own. She kept all the heirlooms because they belong to the family and have been in the family; she&#8217;s not going to be the one to blame for ending the line.<br />
     She doesn&#8217;t sell the ring because Mr. Walls sold their rings. She wanted to feel like a normal person in some way; a normal married mother wears her wedding ring. Does it make more sense to sell something they never use? Yes it does, but Mrs. Walls is different than most people. She is fine with wearing that ring, even though she is homeless. She is fine with spending money on art supplies when they don&#8217;t have enough money for food. She is not the average mother.</p>
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		<title>By: layla</title>
		<link>http://layla.miltsov.org/discussion-of-the-glass-castle-by-jeannette-walls/#comment-7911</link>
		<dc:creator>layla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 17:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always found it peculiar when people find discussions of poverty, disempowerment and social abuse funny. I wonder if this laughter is defensive or whether it is offensive, namely, sadistic?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always found it peculiar when people find discussions of poverty, disempowerment and social abuse funny. I wonder if this laughter is defensive or whether it is offensive, namely, sadistic?</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://layla.miltsov.org/discussion-of-the-glass-castle-by-jeannette-walls/#comment-7908</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 14:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the unintentionally hilarious review + comments, layla.  I&#039;ll be referencing them in the future when attempting to make points about myopic backwash.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the unintentionally hilarious review + comments, layla.  I&#8217;ll be referencing them in the future when attempting to make points about myopic backwash.</p>
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		<title>By: layla</title>
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		<dc:creator>layla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 21:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Bob, I&#039;m glad that you find my review original and extraordinary. It would have been boring if you would have found it not bizarre, conforming to your cozy little world-view, and if it didn&#039;t stir you to write a response. So, thank you for your comment.

I agree that the problem is not simply capitalism, but that it is a problem of civilisation at large, which in the context of the U.S. gets expressed through capitalistic relationships. It would be interesting to see how you would respond to the points I raise in my response to Valerie. Since you do not expound on the reasons for which you believe human and non-human people can fall into poverty or get exterminated, you appear to also, like valerie, blame the people who get underpaid, unpaid, and otherwise exploited. Do you believe that everyone should participate in a uniform system of capitalist, industrial, and technological production and that those who are at the bottom are there because they deserve it or have chosen it? Don&#039;t you see that this kind of rationale is justification of abuse? For instance: if someone got raped, he asked for it; if someone died because she couldn&#039;t afford medication, it&#039;s because she made the wrong choices in her life; if thousands of non-human persons got exterminated, it&#039;s because they are &quot;pests&quot; and &quot;bad&quot;; etc.

Moreover, you know very well that all the ancestors who&#039;ve &quot;made it&quot; in the U.S. did so because the indigenous human and non-human populations have been exterminated, slaves were kidnapped and forced to work, etc.. Unless you deny that part of history in the accumulation of social and material capital of those who pride themselves to &quot;have made it&quot;, you will have to concede that these relationships have everything to do with the misery and misfortune of those who did not make it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bob, I&#8217;m glad that you find my review original and extraordinary. It would have been boring if you would have found it not bizarre, conforming to your cozy little world-view, and if it didn&#8217;t stir you to write a response. So, thank you for your comment.</p>
<p>I agree that the problem is not simply capitalism, but that it is a problem of civilisation at large, which in the context of the U.S. gets expressed through capitalistic relationships. It would be interesting to see how you would respond to the points I raise in my response to Valerie. Since you do not expound on the reasons for which you believe human and non-human people can fall into poverty or get exterminated, you appear to also, like valerie, blame the people who get underpaid, unpaid, and otherwise exploited. Do you believe that everyone should participate in a uniform system of capitalist, industrial, and technological production and that those who are at the bottom are there because they deserve it or have chosen it? Don&#8217;t you see that this kind of rationale is justification of abuse? For instance: if someone got raped, he asked for it; if someone died because she couldn&#8217;t afford medication, it&#8217;s because she made the wrong choices in her life; if thousands of non-human persons got exterminated, it&#8217;s because they are &#8220;pests&#8221; and &#8220;bad&#8221;; etc.</p>
<p>Moreover, you know very well that all the ancestors who&#8217;ve &#8220;made it&#8221; in the U.S. did so because the indigenous human and non-human populations have been exterminated, slaves were kidnapped and forced to work, etc.. Unless you deny that part of history in the accumulation of social and material capital of those who pride themselves to &#8220;have made it&#8221;, you will have to concede that these relationships have everything to do with the misery and misfortune of those who did not make it.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 04:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is THE most bizarre review I have ever read in my entire life. Did the reviewer grab a collegiate dictionary and fill in spaces with the largest, most unnecessary words she could find? As a writer, I am underwhelmed at this attempt to impress us all with your word gymnastics.

As for capitalism being the cause of all the problems here... that is utterly ridiculous. These parents made their own decisions, and Rex was a heavy drinker long before he married (Read &quot;Half Broke Horses&quot;). He would have been this way if he had been a millionaire, because he would have turned right around and gambled it all away, in between drinking spells.

While I don&#039;t believe government institutional schooling is beneficial to society (which is why I homeschool), neither would I blame it on the way parents, then or now, turned out--not to mention, the same water that softens the carrot will harden the egg. People can go through the same fire and come out of it completely different. 

This is not about capitalism. Many, many different things can cause one to fall into poverty. But poverty need not cause utter dispair and ruin (or abuse or alcoholism); it did not with my ancestors. They prevailed. So could have Rex and Rosemary, if they had really wanted to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is THE most bizarre review I have ever read in my entire life. Did the reviewer grab a collegiate dictionary and fill in spaces with the largest, most unnecessary words she could find? As a writer, I am underwhelmed at this attempt to impress us all with your word gymnastics.</p>
<p>As for capitalism being the cause of all the problems here&#8230; that is utterly ridiculous. These parents made their own decisions, and Rex was a heavy drinker long before he married (Read &#8220;Half Broke Horses&#8221;). He would have been this way if he had been a millionaire, because he would have turned right around and gambled it all away, in between drinking spells.</p>
<p>While I don&#8217;t believe government institutional schooling is beneficial to society (which is why I homeschool), neither would I blame it on the way parents, then or now, turned out&#8211;not to mention, the same water that softens the carrot will harden the egg. People can go through the same fire and come out of it completely different. </p>
<p>This is not about capitalism. Many, many different things can cause one to fall into poverty. But poverty need not cause utter dispair and ruin (or abuse or alcoholism); it did not with my ancestors. They prevailed. So could have Rex and Rosemary, if they had really wanted to.</p>
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		<title>By: layla</title>
		<link>http://layla.miltsov.org/discussion-of-the-glass-castle-by-jeannette-walls/#comment-7234</link>
		<dc:creator>layla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 23:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Valerie, It appears that you have missed the point of my anthropological analysis of the implications of the experiences of an unconventional family trying to make it in a world colonised by civilisation and capitalism. Often, despair in this capitalist context gets expressed in addictions to alcoholism, drugs, or, in the case of mainstream consumerism, to shopping, things, food, or possessions (among other manifestations of lost hope). It is arrogant to assume that material poverty stems from personal shortcomings as this position conveniently ignores the fact that most people are forced into poverty precisely so they could be exploited by those who own companies, factories, business, and corportations. Did you know, for instance, that Haitians are some of the poorest workers in the world and that when their government recently tried to raise minimum wage to 61 cents/hour, the Obama administration fought hard to keep it at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.businessinsider.com/wikileaks-haiti-minimum-wage-the-nation-2011-6&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;31 cents so that American textile companies like Hanes and Levi Strauss could keep paying salaries of 3$/day&lt;/a&gt;?.

Now, we all know that such abuse of working people results in abused childhoods and abusive social relationships. Yet, in spite of this, people manage to transmit values, kindness, and compassion to their children. Unless you believe that all those Haitians have brought it upon themselves to be brought there as slaves and continually being exploited and hence bringing children into an impoverished and abusive social order, you will have to concede that capitalism and civilisation are responsible for the cultures of poverty and the cultures of abuse. Whatever Jeneatte Walls&#039; intentions were in writing the memoirs, it is love and understanding that she has retained from her tough childhood, in spite of the ruthlessness with which her parents&#039; dreams were murdered by civilisation with its propensity for colonising lands, spirits and dreams. What interests me in all of this, is how unforgiving people who enjoy any sort of economic luxury are towards dreams and wilderness, their logic: &quot;don&#039;t have kids if you can&#039;t afford them&quot; is the logic of eugenics.

As for medical care, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.health-care-reform.net/causedeath.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;medical intervention as well as medical errors are the 3rd cause of mortality&lt;/a&gt; in the U.S., the first being cancer and heart disease (both diseases of civilisation and capitalism). In addition, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.healthpaconline.net/health-care-statistics-in-the-united-states.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;47 millions of Americans don&#039;t qualify for medical care&lt;/a&gt; or become homeless should one of the diseases caused by civilised employment (they develop their diseases because they work in industries that increase the possibilities of cancer). I hope that you are not insinuating that all these millions of socially abused and neglected Americans are personally responsible for their poverty and ill health.

If you are willing to learn more about how all of these aspects of culture, literature, childhood, civilisation, work, parenting, politics, economics, domestication, etc. are interconnected, I invite you to read more or listen to some of my talks posted on my website.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Valerie, It appears that you have missed the point of my anthropological analysis of the implications of the experiences of an unconventional family trying to make it in a world colonised by civilisation and capitalism. Often, despair in this capitalist context gets expressed in addictions to alcoholism, drugs, or, in the case of mainstream consumerism, to shopping, things, food, or possessions (among other manifestations of lost hope). It is arrogant to assume that material poverty stems from personal shortcomings as this position conveniently ignores the fact that most people are forced into poverty precisely so they could be exploited by those who own companies, factories, business, and corportations. Did you know, for instance, that Haitians are some of the poorest workers in the world and that when their government recently tried to raise minimum wage to 61 cents/hour, the Obama administration fought hard to keep it at <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/wikileaks-haiti-minimum-wage-the-nation-2011-6" rel="nofollow">31 cents so that American textile companies like Hanes and Levi Strauss could keep paying salaries of 3$/day</a>?.</p>
<p>Now, we all know that such abuse of working people results in abused childhoods and abusive social relationships. Yet, in spite of this, people manage to transmit values, kindness, and compassion to their children. Unless you believe that all those Haitians have brought it upon themselves to be brought there as slaves and continually being exploited and hence bringing children into an impoverished and abusive social order, you will have to concede that capitalism and civilisation are responsible for the cultures of poverty and the cultures of abuse. Whatever Jeneatte Walls&#8217; intentions were in writing the memoirs, it is love and understanding that she has retained from her tough childhood, in spite of the ruthlessness with which her parents&#8217; dreams were murdered by civilisation with its propensity for colonising lands, spirits and dreams. What interests me in all of this, is how unforgiving people who enjoy any sort of economic luxury are towards dreams and wilderness, their logic: &#8220;don&#8217;t have kids if you can&#8217;t afford them&#8221; is the logic of eugenics.</p>
<p>As for medical care, <a href="http://www.health-care-reform.net/causedeath.htm" rel="nofollow">medical intervention as well as medical errors are the 3rd cause of mortality</a> in the U.S., the first being cancer and heart disease (both diseases of civilisation and capitalism). In addition, <a href="http://www.healthpaconline.net/health-care-statistics-in-the-united-states.htm" rel="nofollow">47 millions of Americans don&#8217;t qualify for medical care</a> or become homeless should one of the diseases caused by civilised employment (they develop their diseases because they work in industries that increase the possibilities of cancer). I hope that you are not insinuating that all these millions of socially abused and neglected Americans are personally responsible for their poverty and ill health.</p>
<p>If you are willing to learn more about how all of these aspects of culture, literature, childhood, civilisation, work, parenting, politics, economics, domestication, etc. are interconnected, I invite you to read more or listen to some of my talks posted on my website.</p>
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		<title>By: valerie</title>
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		<dc:creator>valerie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 22:45:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you missed the point of this memoir. Jeannette Walls, from what I understood from the book and from interviews she has given, was not trying to paint her family as victims of the capitalist world. She tried to the best of her ability to present a tempered and objective view of what it was like to grow up with a set of extremely non-conventional parents. &#039;Non-conventional&#039; does not necessarily mean &#039;bad&#039;, but in this case the Walls children had to face difficult situations that they could have been saved from had they been properly taken care of by there parents. 
A few of the constant problems that were present at the beginning of the book, but continually worsened were Rex&#039;s alcoholism and the general lack of food present while the Walls were growing up. Living with an alcoholic and with parents unable to feed there children is not something to be strived for. Furthermore, the lack of medical care that was given to the Walls children was astounding. I don&#039;t think that children should be taken to the hospital for falling off a bike, but falling out of a moving car I think most people would qualify that as a time to go to the hospital. Lori required glasses, and her parents didn&#039;t think they were necessary or beneficial! 
Yes, the Walls&#039; parents gave their children unique strengths that may not be present in other families (uncompromising love, a deep sense of self, family loyalty, intellectual curiosity). But that does not mean its mutually exclusive. I think its telling that all their children left before the were 18 and all of them worked as hard as they could to never have to live the way they grew up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you missed the point of this memoir. Jeannette Walls, from what I understood from the book and from interviews she has given, was not trying to paint her family as victims of the capitalist world. She tried to the best of her ability to present a tempered and objective view of what it was like to grow up with a set of extremely non-conventional parents. &#8216;Non-conventional&#8217; does not necessarily mean &#8216;bad&#8217;, but in this case the Walls children had to face difficult situations that they could have been saved from had they been properly taken care of by there parents.<br />
A few of the constant problems that were present at the beginning of the book, but continually worsened were Rex&#8217;s alcoholism and the general lack of food present while the Walls were growing up. Living with an alcoholic and with parents unable to feed there children is not something to be strived for. Furthermore, the lack of medical care that was given to the Walls children was astounding. I don&#8217;t think that children should be taken to the hospital for falling off a bike, but falling out of a moving car I think most people would qualify that as a time to go to the hospital. Lori required glasses, and her parents didn&#8217;t think they were necessary or beneficial!<br />
Yes, the Walls&#8217; parents gave their children unique strengths that may not be present in other families (uncompromising love, a deep sense of self, family loyalty, intellectual curiosity). But that does not mean its mutually exclusive. I think its telling that all their children left before the were 18 and all of them worked as hard as they could to never have to live the way they grew up.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 17:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think anybody should stand up for these &quot;parents&quot; and try to blame capitalism for their failures. I certainly recognize the faults of capitalism, but let&#039;s be very, very clear: In a hunter-gatherer society, parents like this would STILL be bad parents. No matter what society one studies, and no matter what kind of economic system is in place, parents are expected to feed their children if there is any way possible for them to do so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think anybody should stand up for these &#8220;parents&#8221; and try to blame capitalism for their failures. I certainly recognize the faults of capitalism, but let&#8217;s be very, very clear: In a hunter-gatherer society, parents like this would STILL be bad parents. No matter what society one studies, and no matter what kind of economic system is in place, parents are expected to feed their children if there is any way possible for them to do so.</p>
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		<title>By: ryjus</title>
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		<dc:creator>ryjus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2011 17:07:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The mother was secretly holding onto a million dollar piece of property for her entire life and still came to Jeannette at the end of the book and told her to ask her husband for money for an attorney so she could &quot;keep it in the family.&quot;  She kept the ring her children found and wore it when they were starving.  She surreptitiously ate chocolate under the blankets when they were starving and, when caught, claimed that she was suffering from an addiction to chocolate.  She taught them to shoplift and how to cheat banks out of money, as did their father.  When looking at her artwork on Jeannette&#039;s website, I saw it far below average, embarrassingly so.  This is what she sacrificed her children&#039;s security, safety and self esteem for?  She typed manuscripts all day and submitted them constantly for rejections but her daughters had to correct the homework her students did because she couldn&#039;t spell and had no knowledge of grammar?  Yes, I&#039;m glad Jeannette and two of her three siblings turned out O.K. - there was just enough love and encouragement thrown in with all the neglect to keep them going.  However, Jeannette showed this book to her mother before publishing it and said her mother loved it and likes the attention she gets from people after reading it.  No remorse!!  What&#039;s wrong with this picture?  Her mother told Lori that Lori shouldn&#039;t criticize this book because Lori comes across as a &quot;hero.&quot;  I&#039;m reading the book again with the knowledge that Rosemary is not an eccentric philosopher, writer and artist - she is mentally challenged or, worse, mentally incompetent.  I would say that people like her and her alcoholic husband shouldn&#039;t be allowed to have children but look at Jeannette - how can you deny that she came out of this garbage hole stronger and more resilient than the average person?  But what about Maureen?  I read that she&#039;s in an institution somewhere.  Thank you, Jeannette, for the best book I&#039;ve ever read in my life.  I couldn&#039;t put it down.  I see that your mother lives in a small house on your property and that you allow her to still live in filth and disarray.  I admire your acceptance; however, I wonder what a social worker would say if they visited.  On the video, your mother is wearing obviously soiled clothing with long, dirty hair.  She truly looks like a homeless person.  You say that &quot;she may be loopy or worse but I don&#039;t try to change her.&quot;  She&#039;s definitely worse than loopy and I admire you for not judging her but my heart breaks for four little victims whose existence and well-being was not a priority to their parents.  You turned into a beauty and I wonder that you didn&#039;t experience more sexual abuse than the few instances you reported.  Also, did you go to an orthodontist for those perfect teeth or did your homemade contraption of a coat hanger and rubber bands do that excellent job when you were a kid?  I love you for telling such a compelling, inspiring story.  Thank God you had Lori to live with in New York and get a wonderful new start.  I wish the best to all four of you and also wish your mom would feel some remorse for her actions and nonactions before she has to stand before God someday and justify herself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The mother was secretly holding onto a million dollar piece of property for her entire life and still came to Jeannette at the end of the book and told her to ask her husband for money for an attorney so she could &#8220;keep it in the family.&#8221;  She kept the ring her children found and wore it when they were starving.  She surreptitiously ate chocolate under the blankets when they were starving and, when caught, claimed that she was suffering from an addiction to chocolate.  She taught them to shoplift and how to cheat banks out of money, as did their father.  When looking at her artwork on Jeannette&#8217;s website, I saw it far below average, embarrassingly so.  This is what she sacrificed her children&#8217;s security, safety and self esteem for?  She typed manuscripts all day and submitted them constantly for rejections but her daughters had to correct the homework her students did because she couldn&#8217;t spell and had no knowledge of grammar?  Yes, I&#8217;m glad Jeannette and two of her three siblings turned out O.K. &#8211; there was just enough love and encouragement thrown in with all the neglect to keep them going.  However, Jeannette showed this book to her mother before publishing it and said her mother loved it and likes the attention she gets from people after reading it.  No remorse!!  What&#8217;s wrong with this picture?  Her mother told Lori that Lori shouldn&#8217;t criticize this book because Lori comes across as a &#8220;hero.&#8221;  I&#8217;m reading the book again with the knowledge that Rosemary is not an eccentric philosopher, writer and artist &#8211; she is mentally challenged or, worse, mentally incompetent.  I would say that people like her and her alcoholic husband shouldn&#8217;t be allowed to have children but look at Jeannette &#8211; how can you deny that she came out of this garbage hole stronger and more resilient than the average person?  But what about Maureen?  I read that she&#8217;s in an institution somewhere.  Thank you, Jeannette, for the best book I&#8217;ve ever read in my life.  I couldn&#8217;t put it down.  I see that your mother lives in a small house on your property and that you allow her to still live in filth and disarray.  I admire your acceptance; however, I wonder what a social worker would say if they visited.  On the video, your mother is wearing obviously soiled clothing with long, dirty hair.  She truly looks like a homeless person.  You say that &#8220;she may be loopy or worse but I don&#8217;t try to change her.&#8221;  She&#8217;s definitely worse than loopy and I admire you for not judging her but my heart breaks for four little victims whose existence and well-being was not a priority to their parents.  You turned into a beauty and I wonder that you didn&#8217;t experience more sexual abuse than the few instances you reported.  Also, did you go to an orthodontist for those perfect teeth or did your homemade contraption of a coat hanger and rubber bands do that excellent job when you were a kid?  I love you for telling such a compelling, inspiring story.  Thank God you had Lori to live with in New York and get a wonderful new start.  I wish the best to all four of you and also wish your mom would feel some remorse for her actions and nonactions before she has to stand before God someday and justify herself.</p>
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